Why Your Confidence Disappears (And How to Get It Back)

Your voice works perfectly when you're comfortable. But in certain rooms—with certain people—everything changes.

Your mind races. Your voice gets shaky. Your breath feels tight. You've spent hours preparing, but the moment arrives and everything you knew disappears.

Here's the truth: This isn't random. It's a pattern.

And patterns can change.

Find out what's actually happening, and what works for your specific pattern so you can reclaim your confidence from speaking anxiety.

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This isn't random. It's not imposter syndrome. It's not because you don't know your stuff.

There's a pattern to when your voice disappears.

Maybe it's around senior leaders. Maybe it's in groups where you feel you have something to prove. Maybe it's any time you can't prepare exactly how you want.

The unpredictability makes it worse. Your confidence comes and goes, and you can't figure out why.

That’s why I’m offering this free quiz: After coaching thousands of leaders with speaking anxiety over ten years, I know that once you can see the pattern, you can change it.

what's my confidence pattern?

Your Personalized Results Will Show You:

✓ Your primary confidence pattern

Understand exactly what's happening when your voice disappears

✓ Why this pattern shows up for you

The specific triggers and dynamics that activate it

✓ What's NOT working

The well-meaning advice that actually makes your pattern worse

✓ What WILL work

Specific tools and approaches tailored to your pattern

✓ Your next step

Clear guidance on how to integrate into your actual meetings, presentations, and interviews

Communication Confidence Assessment

Why Your Confidence Disappears

(And How to Get It Back)

0 of 8 questions answered

1. My confidence tends to disappear most when:

2. When my confidence disappears, what happens in my body?

3. My empathy in high-stakes situations:

4. When I'm about to enter a high-stakes situation, I:

5. After a situation where my voice disappeared, I:

6. I'm confident in my expertise until:

7. My voice works perfectly when:

8. If I could change one thing:

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You're confident when you're comfortable.
Presence, not perfection.